Operation Be: The Podcast

How Identifying with a Diagnosis is Actually Hurting You

Have you been searching for a diagnosis to explain parts of yourself or your life experience? Join the club! Now, let’s talk about how identifying with that could actually be hurting you too.
 
In a world filled with hot topic words and identifiers floating around, it’s hard to both embrace this part of yourself and also not let it take total control of your life. Wearing it as a badge of honor usually doesn’t do much besides help you in the headspace of “this is what’s wrong with me”. 
I want to talk you through the difficult conversation about how you can actually life-hack your way out of this vortex, and actually use it as a way to navigate parts of yourself & excel in your life. Slowing down is NOT “lazy”, relaxation is NOT “selfish”, and shedding those labels can be a turning point in your growth.✨
 
I hope you enjoy the show!
 
*Mentioned in this show - Episode 13: Stop Dismissing Parts of Self (The Integration You Need)
https://youtu.be/T5OjdyiyeP0
 
Timer Cube for Productivity (on Amazon):
https://a.co/d/hOvSfDn
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Stop Dismissing Parts of Self: Season 2 Episode 13

Welcome back to a new episode of Operation Be: The Podcast. 
 
This show is all about how to STOP dismissing parts of self. Our confidence and belief systems are the ultimate drivers of how we move through our life and our ability to find real peace. 
 
There is a distinct difference in the language that we use with ourselves too. Understanding the difference between “BUT” vs. “AND” is a great place to start honoring self, while remaining true to what you’re going through. 
Have you ever thought about how the word “but” limits our abilities, discounts our real experiences, and excludes parts of self? Real talk…I had to rewire my brain to change this habit, which was so worth it! Replacing it with “and” allowed me to learn to create intention, bridge multiple phases of my reality at once, and validate what I was feeling moment to moment.
 
I hope you enjoy the show!
 
*Mentioned in this show - Episode 8: Do vs. Be
https://youtu.be/bG2tbzYve4I
 
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Season 2 Episode 12: Messes

Welcome back to a new episode of Operation Be: The Podcast. 
 
In this episode, I want to have a hard conversation about being stuck in messes.
 
If the mess you are experiencing is related to depression or your chronic illness…you are NOT alone.
The hardest thing to do when you are in this space is to ask for help. Often those around us are ready and willing…they just don’t know what we need. It’s okay to let life happen. It’s okay to sit in it without feeling shame. It’s okay to recognize that this is part of humanity, and that all messes aren’t so easily cleaned up by you alone.
 
Learning how to give yourself grace with your healing is not simple, but it can be done. It takes a lot of deep breaths, a lot of pauses, and a lot more self awareness to recognize when you need to give yourself a minute…or 100. 
 
I hope you enjoy the show!
 
*Mentioned in this show - The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom
https://amzn.to/4k9zrpx
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Season 2 Episode 11: Move Slower

Welcome back to a new episode of Operation Be: The Podcast. 
 
In this episode, I want to share more about how moving slower can actually work in your favor…
 
I recently spent time with one of my best friends just “being” together, quietly in my home, with zero activities planned. Can we say GAME CHANGER?! In a weekend filled with “nothing” on the schedule, we accomplished SO much…from meaningful life conversations and mindset work, to closing deals with clients and more.
You see, I used to think that when my doctor told me that I “shouldn’t need a break from my life”, it was a load of crap! I was taught like everyone else, that being a busy-bee was the only way to be successful…buy why? What I have since learned is that we should be working towards finding the freedom that comes from creating harmony between work and our personal life needs. Taking the leap of faith to trust that we actually get MORE from doing less…it’s uncomfortable & scary at first, but it is so worth it!
 
I hope you enjoy the show!
 
*Mentioned in this show - Operation Be: The Podcast, Episode 8: Do vs. Be
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/operation-be-the-podcast/id1486644715?i=1000684998025
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Season 2 Episode 10: Awareness

Welcome back to a new episode of Operation Be: The Podcast. 
 
In this episode, I HAVE to share with you the one speech that changed my life…forever.
 
It was the incredible words of Gary Vaynerchuk that set me on a path of real discovery. He talked about the practice of giving ourselves awareness. I know, when I first heard that I was con-fused. How in the world is that possible?
What I learned from him though, was more important than I imagined…
 
Having conscious knowledge of ourselves, our internal motives, and how it fits into our well-being is SO crucial to really thriving. I got so invested in this process that I even went as far as using data tracking apps & accessories (like the Oura Ring) to really “get to know myself” on a deeper level. I learned a lot, including how to recognize when it is the right time to utilize those tools, and when to change course and put that on hold. That is where we find the ability to “gift” ourselves the deep awareness we need. 
 
I hope you enjoy the show!
 
*Get the AskGaryVee book here!
https://amzn.to/3W8BTSS
 
*Also mentioned, the awesome Oura Ring & the Bearable Tracking App:
https://amzn.to/3DHwFXR
https://bearable.app/
 
*Snag one of my shirts here:
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Season 2 Episode 9: Choose Your Hard

Welcome back to a new episode of Operation Be: The Podcast. 
 
In this episode, I want to talk about the #1 mindset shift that I believe we all have to make at some point in our lives. It’s called choosing your hard…
 
We can either choose to work hard getting healthy and living, or we can trudge through the hard days of being unhealthy for the rest of our lives. The truth is we’ve all been so programmed to be on autopilot when it comes to listening to our doctors, etc. that we have lost the ability to really be in touch with our minds and bodies enough to ask more questions and advocate for ourselves. 
What I’ve learned is that we get to choose how we spend our physical energy each day. We can live in a mindset of sacrificing for temporary goals, or we can invest in real change that lasts. It will always come down to mind over matter…always. We have to listen to our gut, literally and figuratively, and do what we know is best for our personal health in the long run.
 
I hope you enjoy the show!
 
*Mentioned in this episode, this is my awesome Chiropractor: 
https://www.facebook.com/jason.hamed.7
 
*Also mentioned, Dandy Blend Tea & 4-in-1 Red Light Therapy Wand:
https://amzn.to/4gLjdR6
https://www.solawave.co/products/radiant-renewal-skincare-wand-lightboost-set
 
*Previous blog post, The Ripple Effect:
https://jamiethurber.com/?s=Ripple
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Season 2 Episode 8: Do vs. Be

Welcome back to a new episode of Operation Be: The Podcast. 
 
In this episode, I want to really get into the differences between DOING and BEING. This critical conversation is what led me to take a very long break from the show, and ultimately launch the new season.
 
While I am a self-proclaimed “Productivity Queen”, I also recognize that it is in part what led to a pivotal shift in my life when my chronic health issues reached crisis level. Don’t get me wrong…being hyperproductive and getting massive amounts of sh*t done are absolutely necessary during different chapters of life, but it’s the way we are doing it that is so wrong. Leaning into urgency, others’ expectations, pressure, anxiety, and a scarcity mindset is one surefire way to get yourself into a tailspin.
Through my own healing journey and fundamental “break” from that detrimental routine, I have realized that it IS okay to bet on me. I have found that trusting myself leads me into abundance, motivating myself leads me to more productivity, and having the courage to slow down leads me to feeling all the grace & gratitude that I desperately needed.
 
I hope you enjoy the show!
 
*Mentioned in this episode, my coaching program: 
www.IntentionalLivingwithJamie.com
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Season 2 Episode 7: Basic Needs

Welcome back to a new episode of Operation Be: The Podcast. 
 
In this episode, I am going to talk about the importance of our basic human needs. I want to discuss the uncomfortable part of this topic, which is the fact that it IS okay to make your own needs more important than those of others, and that we should all stop pretending that we don’t matter most.
 
So often, especially for women, we are taught from a young age to take care of others. Think about it…most young girls will have their first job as a babysitter or caregiver, so from the start we are encouraged to diminish our own needs in an attempt to prioritize others.
I have learned through some pretty tough personal experience, that the longer we ignore our simple basic human needs like sleep, nutrition, hydration, and human connection, the more we risk our health in the long run. It really comes down to the ability for us to recognize our body’s cues, and understand when we really need to focus on “us”  more, and less on others. Through my own journey of self awareness, I have come to truly believe that getting there is not hopeless…even if I have moments that feel that way.
 
I hope you enjoy the show!
 
*Mentioned in this episode: 
www.wildessence.org
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Season 2 Episode 6: Happy New Year!

Welcome back to a new episode of Operation Be: The Podcast. 
 
In this short and sweet mini-show, I wanted to take a few minutes to remind you of a couple important things about heading into the New Year.
 
It’s easy to get lost in the hustle and bustle of holidays, and even in the mental battles surrounding resolutions and change. Well friends, I have a slightly different viewpoint on what that should look like.
I have learned that this slower season can be incredibly useful for things like planning, daydreaming, and even some deep inward reflection. I know that it is a time for our bodies to slow down and “hibernate” a bit to get in touch with what really matters. Don’t worry, the part where we need to take action is coming soon enough with Spring, but for now WHO we are & HOW we are matters more.
 
I wish you a VERY Happy New Year & I can’t wait to share 2025 with you!
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Season 2 Episode 5: On the Fly

Welcome back to a new episode of Operation Be: The Podcast. 
In this episode, I am sharing my insights on what it means to really “do your best”. For years I thought it meant I had to keep my life in overdrive all the time, and while it felt productive, it was actually sinking my ship faster than I knew.
Having awareness about your bandwidth is probably one of the most important skills that we need to thrive. It IS okay if you are just not feeling “it” today, and you need to reschedule, or postpone, or move things around a bit. I have come to really love my new found practice of adjusting on the fly. By doing this I can actually let things that should be easy, be easy.
I have found that winning actually means not giving up, and that freedom to me means creating time for my life AND fulfilling my passions. It is okay to shift your perspectives along the way to define what that means for you, but the importance of building a strong foundation to lean on is truly key.
I hope you enjoy the show!
 
*Check out the book “The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom” here:
https://amzn.to/4ff629u
 
*Click here to grab one of my all-time favorite shirts:
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