Operation Be: The Podcast

The Truth About Security in Relationships (It’s Not What You Think) | Ep 99

In this episode of Operation Be, I’m pulling back the curtain on what security and stability in relationships really mean. This conversation started with a personal story that hit me hard and made me reflect on how often we, especially as women, are conditioned to value the wrong things when it comes to love and partnership.
I’ll share my perspective on the importance of being whole before entering a relationship, how codependency can sneak in and steal our power, and why emotional stability, communication, and reliability matter so much more than the surface-level stuff society tells us to chase.
True security isn’t just about finances—it’s about feeling safe, supported, and aligned. Let’s talk about what that looks like and why you should never settle for anything less.
🎧 Tune in now. This one is a game changer.
 
00:56 A Story of Long-Time Acquaintance
03:01 The Importance of Security in Relationships
08:09 Understanding Codependency
16:20 Financial Security and Personal Growth
23:16 Final Thoughts and Takeaways
 
 
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Hot Tubs, Healing, and Hope | Ep 98 with Angi Hess

What does it really look like to run a business, care for your family, and still show up for yourself while living with chronic illness? In this episode of Operation Be, I sit down with the amazing Angie Hess, Vice President & General Manager of Spas and More in St. Louis, who opens up about her journey of navigating fibromyalgia and other conditions while building a thriving life and career.
She shares what it was like navigating the path to a diagnosis, the daily reality of managing conditions like fibromyalgia, and the mindset shifts that help her keep moving forward with grace and positivity.
We also dive into the role of wellness—everything from setting boundaries to prioritizing mental health—and even how tools like swim spas and hot tubs can support both physical and emotional healing.
This conversation is packed with honesty, resilience, and encouragement. If you’ve ever wondered how to balance real life with real challenges, Angie’s story is a reminder that it is possible—and that you’re not alone.
Tune in today! 🎧
 
00:33 Meet Angie Hess: A Multifaceted Life
01:26 The Journey with Chronic Illness
03:12 Finding Balance and Self-Care
06:15 The Role of Nutrition and Lifestyle Changes
15:33 Setting Boundaries and Mental Health
20:10 Understanding Enmeshment and Personal Growth
23:16 About Spas and More
23:58 Health Benefits of Spa Products
28:45 Michael Phelps and Master Spa Collaboration
35:07 Twilight Series for Lupus Patients
38:00 Choosing the Right Spa
40:23 Daily Mindset and Wellness Tips
 
Connect with Angi:
http://www.spasandmorestl.com
https://www.facebook.com/angichess
https://www.instagram.com/angichess/
 
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Seasons of Change: Grief, Growth & Finding Your Path | Ep 97

I decided it’s time to open my heart to you a bit. Life has a way of moving in seasons—some filled with joy and clarity, others heavy with loss and transition. I’ve walked through grief, through moments that cracked me open, and through the slow process of rediscovering who I am on the other side.
I’ll share pieces of my own story—the hard parts, the healing, and the reminders that showed me it’s okay to honor every emotion along the way. Because none of us are meant to carry it all alone.
If you’re navigating your own season of change, my hope is that this conversation meets you with comfort, connection, and the reminder that you’re not walking it by yourself.
🎧 Take a listen. Find some comfort in knowing you are not alone.
 
00:39 – Introduction and Return to Home Studio
01:27 – Seasons of Life and Personal Reflection
04:34 – Processing Recent Losses and Their Impact
12:48 – Dealing with Loss and Friendship
17:51 – Closing Thoughts on Storytelling and Connection
 
 
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Healing Beyond Ordinary: Therapy, Truth, and Transformation | Ep 96 with Amber Kerby

Welcome back to Operation Be!
This episode is a really special one for me because I get to introduce you to someone who has had a massive impact on my own journey—Amber Kerby. Amber is a licensed marriage and family therapist and the founder of Non-Ordinary Therapy, and she’s been walking beside me for over seven years now.
We dive into what therapy really looks like when you’re willing to go all in. From Internal Family Systems (IFS) to ketamine-assisted therapy, and most importantly—the power of integration and self-compassion—this conversation pulls back the curtain on what true healing actually requires.
I share pieces of my own story here, how working with Amber has shaped the way I see myself, the way I set boundaries, and how I choose to show up every day. This isn’t about surface-level fixes. It’s about doing the deeper work that makes lasting change possible.
If you’ve ever been curious about non-traditional therapy, wondered what it looks like to process emotions in real time, or needed a reminder that you’re not alone in the mess of figuring yourself out—this one’s for you.
✨Tune in, and let this conversation meet you exactly where you are.
 
0:00 – 2:45: Intro & Guest Welcome
2:46 – 6:30: Amber’s Non-Ordinary Therapy Approach
6:31 – 12:00: First Impressions & The “Feeling Cards” Breakthrough
12:01 – 16:00: Finding the Right Therapist
16:01 – 20:30: Pruning Relationships & Choosing What to Re-Engage In
20:31 – 25:00: Presence & Slowing Down
25:01 – 31:00: No Bad Parts & The Wisdom of the Inner Critic
31:01 – 36:00: Integration & Psychedelic Therapy
36:01 – 41:00: Doing the Work vs. Checking the Box
41:01 – 45:00: Grief, Anger, & Permission to Feel
45:01 – 48:00: Worth, Productivity & Self-Compassion
48:01 – 50:00: Amber’s Practice: Microdosing Mindfulness 
 
Connect with Amber:
https://www.facebook.com/nonordinary.therapy
https://www.instagram.com/nonordinary.therapy/
https://www.amberkerby.com/
 
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Breaking the Trauma Ceiling: Leadership, Feminine Power & Freedom | Ep 95 with Annie Yatch

Welcome back to Operation Be! In this episode, I had the absolute honor of sitting down with Annie Yatch—entrepreneur, trauma freedom coach, and Chief Transformation Officer at Northstar Leadership. Annie’s story is incredible… from building multiple 7-figure businesses to now guiding high-performing leaders to break subconscious patterns and lead from a place of authenticity and truth.
We talked about what trauma freedom really means, especially for entrepreneurs, and the difference between masculine and feminine leadership (and why we need both). Annie also shared some powerful insights on breaking generational money beliefs, calming your nervous system, and how neuroscience plays a role in our success.
✨This conversation is full of real talk, wisdom, and tools you can actually put into practice—whether you’re running a business, leading a team, or simply navigating your own growth journey. I walked away with so many takeaways, and I know you will too. ✨
Can’t wait for you to listen in!
 
01:27 - Women in Leadership & Coaching
02:34 - Trauma Freedom for Entrepreneurs Explained
05:55 - Subconscious Patterns & Breaking the Ceiling
09:41 - Money Beliefs from Family & Rewriting Your Story
14:17 - Leadership, Identity, and True Fulfillment
18:45 - Masculine vs. Feminine Energy in Business
22:15 - Relationships, Communication & Emotional Safety
27:00 - The Power of Telling the Truth
31:06 - Accountability, Suffering, and Self-Awareness
35:00 - The Ripple Effect: Impacting Others
37:12 - Being the Lighthouse: Boundaries & Self-Leadership
41:30 - Embodiment, Healing, and Ongoing Growth
46:00 - Tools for Presence & Daily Success
50:09 - Coaching, Neurochemistry, and the Science of Change
54:48 - Annie’s Resources & How to Connect
56:55 - Final Thoughts & The Power of Community
 
Connect with Annie:
Email - Annie@northstarleadershipschool.com
https://www.youtube.com/@NorthstarLeadership.AnnieYatch
https://www.instagram.com/northstarleadership.annie/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/annie-yatch/
PDF for listeners:  https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/form/1A9yfDnMehwAFcZcyGu8
 
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The Dark Side of Productivity: Why Getting More Done is Making You Miserable | Ep 94

Hey friends—this one’s for my fellow overachievers, the ones who wear “productive” like a badge of honor…even when you’re running on fumes.
In this episode of Operation Be, I’m getting real about what happens when hyper-productivity becomes your coping mechanism. I’m sharing pieces of my own journey—how I went from constantly pushing to learning how to listen when my body says “enough.”
We’ll talk about how to recognize the signals your mind and body are sending, why slowing down isn’t failure, and what it actually looks like to build a sustainable pace. I’ll also give you some real, practical tips for managing your to-do list without bulldozing your well-being in the process.
This episode is about reclaiming your energy, your presence, and your peace—because burnout isn’t the vibe, and rest is not a reward. Let’s shift the way we show up for ourselves, one honest conversation at a time.
🎧 Tune in now. This one is a game changer.
00:35 The Dangers of Hyper Productivity
03:12 Personal Story: Avoiding Burnout
05:09 Recognizing and Managing Stress
06:27 Commitment to Self-Care
08:59 Practical Tips for Staying Present
13:55 Using Tools to Stay Organized
16:45 The Importance of Being Present
 
Mentioned in this episode - Asana Time Management Software:
www.asana.com
 
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Embodiment, Ancestral Healing & Coming Home to Yourself | Ep 93 with Jessi Marino

Let’s go deeper—into the body, into the Earth, and into the parts of ourselves we’ve been conditioned to ignore.
In this episode of Operation Be, I sit down with the powerful and wildly grounded Jessi Marino, embodiment teacher, ritualist, vocalist, and founder of Wild Essence—a mystery school devoted to sacred living and embodied magick. With nearly two decades of experience guiding people into deeper relationships with their body and the unseen, Jessi brings a rich perspective on what it truly means to come home to yourself.
We dive into embodiment—not just as a concept, but as a way of being.We talk about how ancestral trauma can live in the body, how rituals and seasonal rhythms can anchor us in healing, and how the shift from constantly doing to simply being is where real transformation begins.
Jessi shares stories from her own path, along with practical tools for grounding, presence, and honoring your emotions—especially in a world that constantly tries to pull you away from yourself.
This conversation is deep, raw, and reverent…a beautiful reminder that your body is not the problem—it’s the portal.
✨Tune in now. Let’s remember who we are, together. ✨
00:33 Meet Jessi: A Life-Changing Coach
01:28 Jessi's Approach to Embodiment and Somatics
02:36 Jamie's Personal Journey with Jessi
06:49 Understanding Somatics and Body Awareness
14:47 The Science and Philosophy of Emotional Memory
23:50 The Concept of Titration in Healing
30:43 The Impact of Modern Life on Our Bodies
31:31 The Evolutionary Lag: Technology vs. Biology
32:30 The Power of Community and Connection
37:15 Personal Anecdotes: Stress and Your Reactions
40:16 Operation Do to Operation Be
43:31 The Importance of Presence and Self-Trust
48:44 Daily Habits for Staying Present
54:04 The Science of Sound and Vibration
58:06 Conclusion and Ways to Connect
 
Connect with Jessi:
Email - jessi@wildessence.org
https://www.instagram.com/jessimagick/
https://www.instagram.com/wildessencemagick/
https://www.instagram.com/eternalrootsvillage/
www.wildessence.org
 
 
 
 
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Accountability Isn’t Optional—It’s Everything | Ep 92

It’s time to get into something real…because if we want better for ourselves, our relationships, and the world we live in—it starts with accountability.
In this episode of Operation Be, I’m diving deep into the importance of owning your sh*t. From billionaires and celebrities to everyday team dynamics, we’re seeing a serious lack of responsibility everywhere—and it’s toxic.
I’m sharing some personal stories from my own leadership journey and unpacking how entitlement and lack of self-awareness can rot a culture from the inside out. We’ll talk about spotting the “leaks” in your own life, what it actually means to take responsibility, and why creating a culture of accountability is non-negotiable if you want real, lasting success.
This isn’t about blame—it’s about empowerment.Because the moment you start holding yourself accountable is the moment everything starts to shift.
🎧 Tune in now. The truth might sting a little, but it’s what sets you free.
00:39 The Importance of Accountability
03:02 Entitlement and Its Consequences
06:34 Personal Responsibility and Self-Awareness
10:06 Defining Core Values
12:41 The Impact of Accountability on Teams
18:08 Final Thoughts 
 
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Chronic Illness, Clean Living & Leading with Heart | Ep 91 with Emily Rizzuto

Let’s talk about what it really takes to thrive when life hands you something heavy—and how choosing alignment in your body, your business, and your mindset can change everything.
In this episode of Operation Be, I sit down with the incredible Emilia Rizzuto—a business owner, certified nutritional counselor, and total light in this world—to talk about her journey with Crohn’s disease, healing from the inside out, and what it means to live fully even when things get hard.
She shares what it was like to get diagnosed at 15, how she navigated treatment, and the powerful shift that happened when she started listening to her body instead of fighting it. We dive into mental and emotional healing, the role of family support, and what it means to stay soft and strong in the face of chronic illness.
Emilia also gives us a behind-the-scenes look at her elderberry business, why clean ingredients matter, and how she’s built something deeply rooted in wellness, connection, and community.
This conversation is real, heartfelt, and full of insight for anyone navigating chronic illness, entrepreneurship, or just trying to live in deeper alignment.
🎧 Tune in now. Healing isn’t one-size-fits-all—but connection, compassion, and clean living? That’s a dang good start.
 
00:37 Meet Emilia Rizzuto: Businesswoman and Health Advocate
01:12 Living with Chronic Illness: Emilia’s Journey
03:34 The Mental Load of Chronic Illness
05:48 Family Life and Chronic Illness
09:29 Raising Health-Conscious Teenagers
11:14 The Importance of Healthy Eating
16:36 Elderberry Business and Local Sourcing
23:18 Recognizing Early Warning Signs of Burnout
23:56 Shifting Mindset: From Overwhelmed to Grateful
24:48 The Pressure We Put on Ourselves
27:42 Identity and Illness
30:39 Support Systems and Community
33:06 Exploring Alternative Healing Methods
38:36 The Importance of Presence and Self-Care
45:20 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
53:27 Grace in Healthcare
01:14:26 Closing Thoughts and Farewell
 
Connect with Emilia:
https://allthingselderberry.com/
https://www.instagram.com/allthingselderberry/
https://www.instagram.com/emiliamrizzuto/
 
 
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New Chapters, Big Moves & Owning Your Voice | Ep 90

Let’s talk about what it really looks like to grow—loudly, boldly, and unapologetically.
In this episode of Operation Be, I’m pulling back the curtain and sharing some big life updates. We’re talking about expansion in every sense of the word—from my personal health journey to stepping into a brand-new role as part-owner and CEO of Punchline Productions (yep, we’re doing the damn thing!).
I dive into the behind-the-scenes of what that transition’s been like—the challenges, the wins, and what it means to take up space in rooms I used to only dream of.We also get personal. I open up about: ✨ How the podcast is evolving with me ✨ The importance of being your own advocate in the wellness world ✨ Navigating love, leadership, and life with my fiancé, Tony ✨ And yes…a little wedding talk, too 💍
This episode is a reminder that growth doesn’t always look polished—but it’s always worth it.It’s about choosing yourself, rewriting the rules, and letting your story speak louder than your fear.
🎧 Tune in now. Let’s walk through the new chapters—together.
 
00:33 New Studio Setup and Life Update
03:52 Health Journey and Personal Growth
09:30 Wedding Plans and Relationship Insights
11:54 Coaching Success Stories
15:48 Joining Punchline Productions
20:58 The Power of Storytelling
32:32 Conclusion and Call to Action
 
Follow Punchline Productions🎥:
https://www.youtube.com/@PunchlineProductions314
https://www.facebook.com/punchlineproductions314
https://www.instagram.com/punchline_productions_314/
 
Mentioned in this episode:
https://www.thehydrojug.com/products/lime-rickey
 
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